30 Day Challenge: Day 4


My dream job…

I don’t know that I’ve ever had a “dream job”, I wanted to be everything growing up, I still do. I wanted to join the military, a car accident ruined that. I wanted to be a professional photographer. I wanted anything that helped me travel the world! I wanted to open a dog shelter and help dogs. I wanted to be a professional motocross racer. I wanted to be more things than I can remember.

I can say that except for the politics and asshole employees, I LOVE my current job! It is basically a dream job. However, if I could become anything, I want to be a doctor. If I could afford it, I’d be in school for that right now. But the next best thing? Being a paramedic and running my truck. I can’t do hospital work, I like making decisions and being on my own. If I became a doctor I would totally travel to take care of the less fortunate. So I guess that is basically my “dream job”.

30 Day Challenge: Day 1


Well, I’m joining the challenge. Several of the bloggers I follow have started the challenge and I want something to get me back to blogging, I miss how it made me feel. I miss being able to write anything I want and have support from those reading, it helped me in more ways than I can explain.

So why have I not been blogging? Just no time, between work and calls and life in general…I literally have no time. I’m a loser. I either work or am at home with my dog doing nothing…I’m such a waste. So I hope to stick with this challenge and write a little something each day and hopefully many more after.

Day 1 is my blog name, our24yearagegap. If you’ve read my blog you know what the name means, but for any new readers coming across this, I am in love with a man 24 years older than me and he loves me too. We have an outstanding relationship and if you don’t look at our age you would think we were completely normal. We have so much in common and get along so well…it’s just an outstanding relationship. His family accepts what we are and so do many of my friends, however my family is very judging and not accepting to anything outside the “normal” so we live in semi secret when it comes to them.

So in short, the name of my blog has to do with the man I love, more than I ever thought possible. I just can’t explain it.

Another Award!

Wow, I can’t believe people actually read the crap I write and like it enough to nominate me!! Thank you Being Her, (the other woman)… for the nomination! For the record…if I could nominate you again, I would! You write your story so well! Thank you for sharing!

Now for the rules…

Award Rules:

Thank the person awarding you. Share a little about why you blog and how the journey started. Paste the blog award on your page. Nominate 10 other bloggers you feel deserve the award.

Why I blog and how the journey started…this is easy. I started blogging because I’m in an age gap relationship, with a man 24 years older than me, and when I went online for support I found very little. Our relationship is not considered “normal” and people have a hard time with it. Some days that hard time effects me too, so I went to blogging. I thought it would be a good way to get things off my mind and connect with other people in similar relationships as me. Recently my blog has changed to my family and the hell I’m living, but I will get back on track, sorry. I guess my blogging has turned into ranting about my life and problems, it will be happy and positive again soon. I’m working on this, but thank you for reading anyway. : )

Now, for the 10 I need to nominate (in no particular order), here goes:

1. My life as I know it…

2. Being a Beautiful Mess

3. buckwheatsrisk-surviving abuse

4. fourtiming

5. confessionsofyourhusbandsmistress

6. cul-de-sac confessions

7. Dirty Little Whispers

8. worldofminifigs

9. Jottings and Writings

10. Anna* Daily

Thank you all for sharing your stories! And thank you for the recent support! I really appreciate it!

Keep writing!

Search Me Often?

Thursday this week the dentist will be stealing all my wisdom so I am currently trying to keep my mind occupied, plus I’m bored at work. You may find many random posts between now and Thursday, especially when I’m trying to keep my mind occupied like today.

I noticed recently some odd searched leading people to my page. Some make sense, others not so much. If you care to read, they are below with my thoughts on the people doing the searching. Enjoy.

i love you finger art – Well, this can only lead to my post with finger art in it. I can only imagine what this person thought if they decided to read the rest of my blog.

finger art – My guess is this is the same person as above, once again I believe they came across this post and it’s not what they were looking for. Instead it was just a random photo from my random life when I was messing around with people…nothing unusual for me.

cancer pisces alike in many ways – I’m going to guess that this person was searching along the lines of my search when I came across the information I posted on this one. They probably found some information they were looking for in this one, maybe.

our24yearagegap@yahoo.com – Clearly someone was trying to see what all was linked to my e-mail address which got me curious. I found the following: contact page and some other page that I’m not sure of.

when to divorce – This had to lead the person to the following post and I hope this person found what they are looking for. It saddens me to hear about people getting a divorce, but sometime it really is for the best.

lmfao – sexy and i know it youtube ageless – This is a random search here…very interesting. This person was looking for me that’s for sure, not sure why those plus “ageless” would be put together. It had to lead them to the following post and probably another page I have removed from my account.

our24yeargap.wordpress.com – This one is pretty self explanatory, they were clearly trying to relocate my page.

love finger art – Someone really loves their finger art! I’m curious if this was all the same person or multiple people.

mimi alford or beardsley – This person was probably searching for “Once Upon a Secret” and came across my post reviewing the book. I do hope they buy it and enjoy it as much as I have. It was truly a good book!

our24yeargap – Once again this is pretty self explanatory, clearly this person was searching for me.

finger art love – And again someone is in love with their finger art! I will admit, this search has made me quit popular. I’m always impressed to see that 1 person has looked at my blog, let along 2!

this kid necer stops playing x box – I’d like to point out that this person can’t spell, but they must have come across either this blog post or this one. I’m going to take a guess here they may have been talking about my brother because he NEVER stops playing! It must be nice to be 20 (almost 21), no job, no school, and play Xbox all damn day!! Ugh!!

job come – I’m guessing this person was searching for my post directly because I’m not sure why you would search “job come” only…it’s a little creepy to think people are looking for me directly and clearly more than once.

what if volunteer firefighters don’t volunteer – Someone is worried about their firefighters not showing up and I would just like to say that it would be very rare for this to happen! But who knows, it could. I think they came across one of the two posts that I have with volunteer firefighter in it, either this one or this one.


So, I’m a bit slow to respond to this, but I’ve been nominated for the Versatile Blogger Award! I’d like that thank hurtorheal for this nomination! Thank you!!

If you are nominated, you’ve been awarded the Versatile Blogger award.

  •  Thank the person who gave you this award. That’s common courtesy.
  •  Include a link to their blog. That’s also common courtesy — if you can figure out how to do it.
  •  Next, select 15 blogs/bloggers that you’ve recently discovered or follow regularly. ( I would add, pick blogs or bloggers that are excellent!)
  •  Nominate those 15 bloggers for the Versatile Blogger Award — you might include a link to this site.
  •  Finally, tell the person who nominated you 7 things about yourself.

For my 15 nominations (in no particular order):

cul-de-sac confessions


Technicolor Day Dreams


Age Gap Gal

Lonely Girl’s Life

Chick On a Date

365 Trinkets

Expand the Horizon



Childhood Relieved

If I Were Brave

this man’s journey

view from the lookout

Now, for the 7 things about myself…

No one and nothing can keep me off my dirtbike! I ride even when I’m sick or broken. I love it way too much to give it up for anything!

I love storms! But am scared to death of tornados…guess I live in the wrong area!

I’m lost without my necklace and can’t make it though my day, I just feel naked. Saint Michael protects me every day.

I hate that the family has gone it’s separate ways! I love having people around and being from a giant family, I hate that no one shows up for holidays and everyone is too busy to hang out.

I love playing Call of Duty! No matter what my mom says, girls CAN play video games!

I have broken more bones than I can remember, including bones in my face from a car accident.

My ADHD gets the better of me most days.